QTM 100 How Do You Become a Christian?
How to Become a Christian
To the reader:
How to become a Christian is a question that gets clouded by conflicting ideas. Some say it's mainly rituals or culture; others say it's just agreeing to a list of beliefs. But when we look at the Bible, we see that becoming a follower of Christ is not a small tweak—it is a radical change. It moves a person from spiritual disconnection to a real relationship with God.
When we refer to God, we mean the God of Scripture who created all things (Genesis 1–2; John 1:3; Colossians 1:16–17). When we talk about being "restored" or "made new," we mean what the Bible calls being "born again," "saved by grace," and "given a new heart."
We don't ask for blind trust; we invite you to check. This paper follows the Berean approach: every claim can be tested against the Bible.
1. THE PROBLEM: SIN AND SEPARATION
This paper is for anyone who wants to follow Christ but runs into real obstacles. The Bible says the human heart isn't just a little broken—it's corrupted at the core.
- The problem: “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” (Romans 3:23, NIV)
- The consequence: “For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Romans 6:23, NIV)
1.1 The heart of the problem
The Bible says this corruption isn't surface-level; it's in the heart—who we are at the core.
1.2 Three common obstacles
People often get stuck in one of three ways:
Someone who tries to earn their way to God through "good works," not realizing the heart is corrupted. The Bible is clear: we can't fix ourselves:
- Saved by grace: “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast.” (Ephesians 2:8–9, NIV)
- Our best efforts: “All of us have become like one who is unclean, and all our righteous acts are like filthy rags…” (Isaiah 64:6, NIV)
- Not by works: “…know that a person is not justified by the works of the law, but by faith in Jesus Christ.” (Galatians 2:16, NIV)
Someone who can't square Christ's claims with what they already believe. God invites us to think (Isaiah 1:18), but the message of the cross will look like "foolishness" to human pride.
- God's wisdom vs. ours: “For since in the wisdom of God the world through its wisdom did not know him, God was pleased through the foolishness of what was preached to save those who believe… For the foolishness of God is wiser than human wisdom...” (1 Corinthians 1:21–25, NIV)
- Give a reason: “Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have.” (1 Peter 3:15, NIV)
The cross looks foolish on purpose—it humbles our pride and shows the limits of reason alone.
Someone who looks like a Christian on the outside but doesn't have the Spirit's work on the inside.
- Belief isn't enough: “You believe that there is one God. Good! Even the demons believe that—and shudder.” (James 2:19, NIV)
- You need the Spirit: “And if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, they do not belong to Christ.” (Romans 8:9, NIV)
- Jesus' warning: “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven… Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!’” (Matthew 7:21–23, NIV)
Looking like a Christian without the Spirit is not the real thing. To get beyond that, you need a real change from the inside—what the Bible calls being born again.
2. WHAT HAS TO CHANGE: A NEW HEART
We want to give you clear steps from where you are to real faith. That takes more than outward change; it takes an inner change—what Scripture calls "new heart," "rebirth," and "renewal."
2.1 You need a new heart, not a fix-up
The Bible says that because the heart is "beyond cure" (Jeremiah 17:9), the solution isn't a patch or a repair—it's a new heart. God gives it.
- The Mandate: “Jesus replied, ‘Very truly I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God unless they are born again.’” (John 3:3, NIV)
- The Promise: “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.” (Ezekiel 36:26, NIV)
- The Mechanism: “He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit.” (Titus 3:5, NIV)
- New creation: “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” (2 Corinthians 5:17, NIV)
This isn't a behavior tweak; it's a new creation. The old is "gone"; the new is "here" (2 Cor 5:17).
2.2 It's a change in who you are
This isn't just changing behavior; it's a change in identity.
- Believe and confess: “If you declare with your mouth, ‘Jesus is Lord,’ and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved...” (Romans 10:9–10, NIV)
- Children of God: “Yet to all who did receive him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God.” (John 1:12, NIV)
- Christ lives in me: “I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me…” (Galatians 2:20, NIV)
- We are God's children: “See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!” (1 John 3:1, NIV)
The "old self" isn't just restrained; it's crucified. The new reality is "Christ lives in me." The Bible is clear: "And that is what we are!" (1 John 3:1). This isn't a future hope; it's a present reality. Becoming a Christian changes what you are, not just what you do.
2.3 God's guarantee
This change isn't just a feeling; God seals and keeps those who belong to Him.
- The Spirit as guarantee: “When you believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance...” (Ephesians 1:13–14, NIV)
- Spirit = belonging to Christ: “And if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, they do not belong to Christ…” (Romans 8:9, NIV)
- Same Spirit will raise us: “And if the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead is living in you, he who raised Christ from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies...” (Romans 8:11, NIV)
3. THE STEPS: REPENT, BELIEVE, CONFESS
Knowing what's required isn't the same as doing it. The Bible gives clear steps.
3.1 Step 1: Repent
The first step is to turn away from the old way of life. The Bible calls this "repentance" (metanoia)—a real turn toward God.
- Repent and turn: “Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out...” (Acts 3:19, NIV)
- Godly sorrow: “Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death.” (2 Corinthians 7:10, NIV)
- Repentance is a gift: “…So then, even to Gentiles God has granted repentance that leads to life.” (Acts 11:18, NIV)
3.2 Step 2: Believe (Faith)
After you turn away from the old life, you put your trust in God. That's faith.
- Jesus is the way: “Jesus answered, ‘I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.’” (John 14:6, NIV)
- Everyone who calls: “For, ‘Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.’” (Romans 10:13, NIV)
- Trust in the Lord: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding...” (Proverbs 3:5–6, NIV)
- Righteousness through faith: “…not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which is through faith in Christ...” (Philippians 3:9, NIV)
God doesn't offer a way among many; He is the way. That isn't arrogance—it's the truth. And the invitation is for everyone: whoever calls on the name of the Lord will be saved (Rom 10:13).
3.3 Step 3: Confess
This isn't meant to stay private. The Bible calls for a public acknowledgment of Jesus as Lord.
- Confess before others: “Whoever acknowledges me before others, I will also acknowledge before my Father in heaven...” (Matthew 10:32–33, NIV)
3.4 Common hang-ups
Your good works don't earn salvation. Drop the resume.
- Count it as loss: “But whatever were gains to me I now consider loss for the sake of Christ...” (Philippians 3:7–8, NIV)
- Pharisee and tax collector: Jesus himself illustrated this principle: the Pharisee who recited his moral achievements went home unjustified; the tax collector who could only say 'God, have mercy on me, a sinner' went home justified (Luke 18:9–14, NIV).
Faith isn't ignoring evidence; it's responding rightly to what God has shown us.
- Help my unbelief: “Immediately the boy’s father exclaimed, ‘I do believe; help me overcome my unbelief!’” (Mark 9:24, NIV)
- Thomas: “Then he said to Thomas, ‘Put your finger here; see my hands... Stop doubting and believe.’” (John 20:27, NIV)
Check yourself: are you really in the faith?
- Examine yourselves: “Examine yourselves to see whether you are in the faith; test yourselves...” (2 Corinthians 13:5, NIV)
4. LIVING AS A CHRISTIAN
Becoming a Christian (justification) is an event; growing as a Christian (sanctification) is a process. You won't be perfect this side of heaven—you keep growing.
4.1 Spirit vs. flesh
You'll feel a real conflict between the Spirit and your old desires (the flesh). That's not a sign of failure—it's a sign that something new is at work in you.
- Flesh vs. Spirit: “For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit...” (Galatians 5:17, NIV)
- Don't let sin rule: “Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body...” (Romans 6:12–13, NIV)
- Confess and be forgiven: “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive...” (1 John 1:8–9, NIV)
4.2 The Input: Data Ingestion
The new system requires specific data to rewrite the old scripts. This is not merely "reading"; it is "ingesting" the mind of God.
- The Data Spec: “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching...” (2 Timothy 3:16–17, NIV)
- Let the word dwell among you: “Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom...” (Colossians 3:16, NIV)
The Bible says the "message of Christ" should dwell "among you richly" (Col 3:16)—that's something we do together, not alone.
4.3 Fruit: what shows up in your life
How do you know something has changed? You look at what your life produces.
- Acts of the flesh: “sexual immorality, impurity... hatred, discord, jealousy...” (Galatians 5:19–21, NIV)
- Fruit of the Spirit: “love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness...” (Galatians 5:22–23, NIV)
- Love marks disciples: “By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” (John 13:35, NIV)
4.4 Stay connected to other believers
The Christian life isn't meant to be lived alone. We need each other.
- Don't give up meeting together: “...not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing...” (Hebrews 10:24–25, NIV)
- Grow together: “Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ... From him the whole body... grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work.” (Ephesians 4:15–16, NIV)
Spiritual maturity isn't solo; the Bible says the body "grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work" (Eph 4:16). Going it alone stunts growth.
5. KEEP GOING
The Christian life isn't a one-time event; it's a long obedience.
5.1 Run the race
- Run with perseverance: “...let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us...” (Hebrews 12:1, NIV)
- Fix your eyes on Jesus: “...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith.” (Hebrews 12:2, NIV)
- God keeps you: “To him who is able to keep you from stumbling...” (Jude 1:24, NIV)
5.2 The Correction Mechanism (Discipline)
When you wander, God disciplines you. That's not condemnation—it's a father's correction because He loves you.
- The Legal Status: “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus…” (Romans 8:1, NIV)
- Discipline proves you're His: “If you are not disciplined—and everyone undergoes discipline—then you are not legitimate, not true sons and daughters.” (Hebrews 12:8, NIV)
5.3 The Security Guarantee (Assurance)
The security of the system is ultimately underwritten by God’s character, not the user's performance.
- The Completion Promise: “...he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion...” (Philippians 1:6, NIV)
- No one can snatch you: “I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one will snatch them out of my hand.” (John 10:28, NIV)
5.4 What about people who walk away?
What about people who seemed to believe but then turn away for good?
- They didn't really belong: “They went out from us, but they did not really belong to us...” (1 John 2:19, NIV)
- Rocky ground: “The seed falling on rocky ground refers to someone who hears the word and at once receives it with joy. But since they have no root... they quickly fall away.” (Matthew 13:20–21, NIV)
6. REFERENCES
Sources
6.1 Bible
- The Holy Bible, New International Version (NIV): Used for all Scripture references.
- Berean approach (Acts 17:11): We check every claim against the Bible.
6.2 Key passages
- Genesis 1–2: Creation; God made all things.
- Proverbs 3:5–6: Trust in the Lord; trusting God rather than our own understanding.
- Isaiah 1:18: Come reason together; God invites us to reason with Him.
- Isaiah 64:6: Righteous acts like filthy rags; the corruption of self-generated righteous acts.
- Jeremiah 17:9: Deceitful heart; the heart can't fix itself.
- Ezekiel 36:26: New heart promised; God promises a new heart.
- Matthew 7:21–23: Not everyone who says Lord, Lord; Jesus' warning to those who say "Lord, Lord" but don't know Him.
- Matthew 10:32–33: Confess before others; confessing Christ before others.
- Matthew 11:28: Jesus' invitation to the weary.
- Matthew 13:20–21: Rocky ground; why some receive the word with joy but fall away.
- Mark 9:24: "I do believe; help me overcome my unbelief."
- Luke 9:23: Deny self, take up cross; Jesus' call to deny self and take up the cross.
- Luke 18:9–14: Pharisee and tax collector; Jesus' illustration of the Moralist error.
- John 1:3: Word as creator; the Word as the agent of creation.
- John 1:12: Receive Christ, become children of God; believing in Christ makes us children of God.
- John 3:3: You must be born again.
- John 10:28: Believers are secure in God's hand.
- John 13:35: Love marks Jesus' disciples.
- John 14:6: Jesus is the only way to the Father.
- John 14:26: The Spirit teaches and reminds us.
- John 15:5: We must abide in Christ to bear fruit.
- John 20:27: Jesus shows Thomas the evidence.
- John 20:31: Scripture was written so we may believe.
- Acts 2:38, 41: Repent, be baptized; early church pattern.
- Acts 3:19: Repent and turn so sins may be wiped out.
- Acts 4:12: Salvation is only through Jesus.
- Acts 11:18: God grants repentance; it's a gift.
- Acts 17:11: Check everything against Scripture.
- Acts 26:20: Deeds show the reality of repentance.
- Romans 3:10–12: No one seeks God on their own.
- Romans 3:23: All have sinned and fall short of God's glory.
- Romans 5:12: Sin and death entered through one man.
- Romans 6:12–13: Don't let sin rule in your body.
- Romans 6:23: Wages of sin is death; gift of God is eternal life.
- Romans 7:15: The inner conflict between what we want and what we do.
- Romans 8:1: No condemnation for those in Christ.
- Romans 8:9: The Spirit marks those who belong to Christ.
- Romans 8:11: The Spirit will raise our bodies.
- Romans 8:38–39: Nothing can separate us from God's love.
- Romans 10:9–10: Believe in your heart, confess with your mouth.
- Romans 10:13: Whoever calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.
- Romans 12:2: Be transformed by renewing your mind.
- 1 Corinthians 1:18: The cross seems foolish to those who don't believe.
- 1 Corinthians 1:21–25: God's "foolishness" is wiser than human wisdom.
- 1 Corinthians 9:24–27: Run the race with discipline.
- 1 Corinthians 12:27: Believers together are the body of Christ.
- 2 Corinthians 5:17: Old gone, new here—new creation in Christ.
- 2 Corinthians 5:21: Christ took our sin; we get His righteousness.
- 2 Corinthians 7:10: Godly sorrow leads to repentance.
- 2 Corinthians 13:5: Examine yourselves to see if you are in the faith.
- Galatians 2:16: We are justified by faith, not works of the law.
- Galatians 2:20: Crucified with Christ; He lives in us.
- Galatians 2:21: We can't save ourselves; Christ had to die for us.
- Galatians 3:3: Don't try to finish by your own effort what the Spirit started.
- Galatians 5:17: Spirit and flesh are at war.
- Galatians 5:19–21: The acts of the flesh.
- Galatians 5:22–23: The fruit of the Spirit.
- Ephesians 1:13–14: The Spirit is the guarantee of our inheritance.
- Ephesians 2:8–9: Salvation by grace through faith, not works.
- Ephesians 4:15–16: We grow together as the body of Christ.
- Philippians 1:6: God will complete the work He started in us.
- Philippians 3:7–8: Count everything as loss for Christ.
- Philippians 3:9: Righteousness through faith in Christ.
- Philippians 3:12–14: Paul presses on; we're not perfect yet.
- Colossians 1:11: Strengthened for endurance; strengthened with all power for endurance.
- Colossians 1:16–17: Christ as Creator and Sustainer; Christ as Creator and Sustainer.
- Colossians 1:18: Christ as Head of the body; Christ as Head of the Body.
- Colossians 3:9–10: Put off old self, put on new; old self off, new self on.
- Colossians 3:16: Let the word of Christ dwell richly; letting the message of Christ dwell richly in the community.
- 1 Thessalonians 1:9: Turn from idols to the living God; turning from idols to the living God.
- 1 Thessalonians 5:21: Test all things; test all things.
- 2 Timothy 2:13: God remains faithful; God remains faithful even when we are faithless.
- 2 Timothy 3:5: Form of godliness without power; simulation without power.
- 2 Timothy 3:16–17: Scripture is God-breathed; Scripture as God-breathed and equipping.
- Titus 3:5: Renewal by the Holy Spirit; renewal by the Holy Spirit.
- Hebrews 4:12: The Word is living and active; the Word as alive and penetrating.
- Hebrews 10:24–25: Don't give up meeting together; not giving up meeting together.
- Hebrews 12:1–2: Run the race, fix eyes on Jesus; throwing off hindrances, fixing eyes on Jesus.
- Hebrews 12:6, 11: Discipline as proof of God's love; discipline as proof of love.
- Hebrews 12:8: Discipline proves we're His children; discipline as proof of sonship.
- James 2:19: Even demons believe—that's not saving faith; distinguishing data-belief from saving faith.
- 1 Peter 2:5: Believers as living stones in God's house.
- 1 Peter 3:15: Be ready to give a reason for your hope; being prepared to give an answer.
- 1 John 1:8–9: Confess sin, be forgiven; cleansing for ongoing sin.
- 1 John 2:19: Those who leave never really belonged; leaving reveals lack of belonging.
- 1 John 3:1: We are God's children now.
- 1 John 5:13: You can know you have eternal life; assurance of eternal life.
- Jude 1:24: God is able to keep you from stumbling; able to keep you from stumbling.
- Revelation 3:19: God rebukes those He loves; rebuke as a sign of love.
6.3 How we approach this
- Berean approach (Acts 17:11): We check every claim against the Bible.
- New birth / restoration: A helpful way to think about what God does when He saves us.
- One way: Jesus is the only way—not arrogance, but the truth.
- We can't save ourselves: If we could, the cross would be unnecessary.
- Justin Martyr (c. AD 155): Early church description of how people became Christians.





